𝗢𝗱𝗼𝘂𝗿
You may have an offensive odour. Could be body odour, could be mouth odour, and your friends probably don’t know how to tell you. And really, you can’t blame them, it’s hard gist. There was this one time me and some friends planned to talk to one of our friends about this odour thing. It’s been years now, and we’re still looking for the liver.
𝗧𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗲
You probably have no limit to the words that come out of your mouth. You talk when you should be quiet. Whenever you enter the place, everybody knows you’re around. It can be fun for like 20 to 30 minutes but after then it becomes annoying for many people. The thing with being a talkative is that soon enough you’ll start to lie just as much.
𝗜𝗻𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗶𝘁𝘆
You don’t know when not to visit. You don’t know when to go home. You do not observe moods. You don’t care if someone has been hungry all day and is having their first meal for the day, you will just put hand. You walk into a room and everybody’s face changes; the people who were smiling before started frowning, the people who were laughing before suddenly went quiet. You did not notice! (You’ll think people like this do not exist but my dear, you’d be shocked).
𝗡𝗼 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗯𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀
You enter somebody’s house and just because they said “feel at home” you enter kitchen, enter room, relax on the couch with your legs on the table. You walk into a room and your friend’s friends/siblings are around, you start being unnecessarily friendly with them. Respect boundaries.
𝗕𝗮𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗿
People usually do not like to be around people who lack manners, people who are bossy, people who are full of themselves(these ones can talk about themselves from the beginning to end of a conversation). Check your character, especially those things that people complain about.
𝗬𝗼𝘂’𝗿𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗮𝗯𝗹𝘆 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝗻𝗴 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗻𝘆
Stop forcing friendships. Respect yourself enough to get out of any company where there’s no value or respect for you. Stay where you’re loved.
𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗯𝗲𝗴 𝘁𝗼𝗼 𝗺𝘂𝗰𝗵
I don’t need to say much on this my brethren.
Selah!
In conclusion, it is very important that we all have honest friends and also have the courage to seek their assessments on our character. Beyond sentiments. Seek to be better.
𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘧𝘧 𝘢𝘴 𝘧𝘶𝘯𝘯𝘺 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘭𝘺…